Having sex with your husband can be a thrilling experience. If you’re looking to get more out of it, there are a few things you can do to make it even better.
humiliate himself
Whether you’re the one wanting to have sexual humiliation or your husband is the one who’s asking, it’s best to have a discussion about your needs before you decide to go for it. Knowing what you want and your desires will help you to negotiate your kink play and create the type of scene you want.
Humilty plays can be used as a stand-alone form of play or can be integrated into the bedroom. There are many options, and you can start with something small and work your way up to something bigger and more intense. There are different approaches, including using a safeword and advance negotiation.
You can humiliate your partner in a variety of ways, including verbal and physical belittlement. Depending on the person, some people enjoy the mental pain that comes with dehumanizing another human being, while others like the physical pain. Regardless of the method, a humiliation session can be fun for both of you.
If you’re unsure about the intensity of your husband’s desire, it’s best to start out with a milder humiliation. Your husband may have insecurities about his sexuality, and he’ll need to know that you aren’t going to be too harsh. You can always ramp up the intensity if he’s not comfortable with it.
Often, erotic humiliation can be a triggering experience, so it’s important to proceed slowly. You’ll want to discuss your insecurities before you begin. You should also make sure that you and your partner have agreed on boundaries and what is and isn’t acceptable.
If you’re afraid that your husband might be uncomfortable with you humiliating him, you can always use a safeword and talk to him before you get started. This is especially helpful if you’re not familiar with his fetishes. If he’s a submissive, you can try to put him in a bottom mind space by providing stimulation while humiliating him. This is often a great way to put your husband in the mood for sex.
Spitting is a very popular humiliation technique for men, but it’s also fun for both of you. You can also flog someone to get a mental break from chronic pain.
change the way you look at sex
Changing the way you think about your sex with your husband is a very important aspect of a healthy relationship. This is not an instant process and it may take a while. However, there are a few tips you can follow to help you improve your sex life. You can also seek the help of a counselor if you feel that you are in a difficult situation. Regardless of whether or not you decide to work with a professional, it’s important to maintain an open dialogue about your sex with your husband.
One thing to keep in mind when you are talking about your sex with your husband is that you should never be judgmental. Instead, talk about the good things about your sex and focus on things you have learned. This will help to build a positive tone and give your partner more confidence. Compliments can also be helpful to boost your partner’s confidence and make them more likely to listen.
You should never expect too much change at once. This is especially true if your sex is a major issue in your relationship.